As for us, we have our names chosen for both sexes and the best part in this is, we really will be excited no matter the gender although I do believe we tip in our preference towards one side!
I often wondered when was the right time to actually setup the nursery, buy the items on the list that the agency suggest and even when to do a bridal registry. I really researched a lot to see when people do what but the consensus usually starts shopping immediately, waits a few months after being in the books for the nursery and has the baby shower after the baby is born. I know there is no right or wrong timing in all of these situations but sometimes I just wish there was a "What to expect when your adopting" guide...but for now, I have my head wrapped in...